Heebie, do you have to store all your recycled stuff in the kitchen? Do you have a shed, or a garage, or an outhouse? I have one tall cupboard in the kitcken which I took the bottom shelf out of, there is room for three medium size plastic swing lid bins, and a plastic bucket with a lid for the veg waste.
The two bins at the back don't have lids on, I can drop the plastic and carboard into one, and tins and glass into the other, without moving the front ones. The front bin has a liner in it and a lid, for general non recyclable waste, and my plastic bucket is next to it.
When these fill up it's easy to take the bins out and put the contents into the big council bins and boxes. By the way, not all plastic is recyclable, you have to look at the symbol stamped on the bottom, blimey OH will never get used to that.
If you don't have room in your kitchen can you make an area outside the back door.
As for getting your OH to join in, his excuses are childish, just keep going on at him. Stick a big notice on your general waste bin saying
STOP do you really need to put that in here?
Ilona