Ed, I think you are the type of farmer we all hope our animals come from. I hope most farmers put the welfare of their animals first as you do.
I watched the Rivercottage Autumn catch-up on Sunday and I disagree that they showed it "warts and all" I think it was heavily edited. Jen is completely right about the chicken slaughter.
HFW is trying to get us to keep livestock to eat and grow our own veg and the programme is aimed mainly at everyday people like us who need to eat better and know where our meat comes from. I am usually a huge fan and try to support my local farmers when I can but it worries me that this particular part will be used by people who may cause distress and pain to their birds, however well meaning they may be.
That said, I'm happy we have an experienced, caring farmer on our forum. It's good to hear things from your side of the fence as well. I hope you like it on her too.